Thursday, October 29, 2009
GRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!
Why do relationships have to be so complicated? And how do you talk to someone about the problems in your relationship when all they do is get so defensive that they're not listening to you anymore? I can't just keep smiling and pretending that it's all fine when it isn't, but I don't know what else to do!
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I know its hard, but you gotta call her on it. Just be like, "look we need to work this out but we can't do it if your gonna get defensive." Then just tell her when she calms down a bit you can talk about it again. I know its frustrating, but you definitely can't solve anything if the defensive is always up.
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